| This guide to my diary will help explain who is
who, where is where and what's what. I'll continue to add to the "Who's Who" as
I get time and information to keep you better informed. Before the Who's Who page was
first suggested, I had actually already given it some thought, and decided "Naw, they
can figure it out." All of the information is in the diary if you read every word,
and I think things become pretty evident as more and more diary entries are added. The
diary begins just before my 10th birthday, March 3, 1973, and soon, it will all be
uploaded. I'm now planning on going on into 1980 and 1981 to finish the high school days.
Here goes (Be patient during the download, and you will be rewarded with some cool
"then and now" pix):

My brother Bob's wedding day -- Nov. 16, 1974.
Mossville (Illinois) Methodist Church Pictured from left are: Mom (Earlene Marie Biddison
Fidler), Grandma B. (Vada Mae Clingler Biddison); Grandpa B. (Earl Biddison); my
sister-in-law, Sharolyn Kennington Fidler; Bob (Robert Dale Fidler); Grandma Katie L.
Fidler; and Dad (Richard Lee Fidler).

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"Stacy" was
one of my first boyfriends. Stacy Tod Liston was born in September 1964. We met in summer
marching band practice while I was in eighth grade and he was in seventh. I got his
attention with my sense of humor. He was several inches shorter than me, which made school
dances interesting. He moved to Cisne, Ill., after Junior High, but we stayed in touch
through mail and phone. Then, he moved out of state for a time in the late '70s. Last time
I saw him was in late 1981. At that time, he had grown taller than me, looked a whole lot
like Tom Cruise, who was starring in "Risky Business," and had a
girlfriend named Joanie. Just my luck! The picture at left was taken by my mother in my
back yard when we got together for a visit in May 1979. Click
here to find out where my first love is now. He was a good guy. |
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"Buster Bradley" was
never really a "boyfriend," per se. Mark Emery Evans was born Sept. 13, 1957. He
was a disc jockey on Peoria's top 40 station, KZ-93. He didn't seem to like disco, but
humored me. He always played my requests for Captain and Tennille, and we developed a nice
phone relationship. We had one date. He broke my heart in August 1978 when he moved to
Chattanooga, Tenn., and again in July 1979. He was a nice man, six years older than me.
This picture of us, taken Aug. 15, 1978, best describes our relationship. Buster's now
been "found" after all these years! Click to see "Where
in the world is Buster Bradley?" |

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Mom and Dad, then and now. The pictures at top were
taken in the summer of 1976. Mom and Dad were 48 years old. The photo of them together
below I took myself in the summer of 1999 for their 50-year wedding anniversary. Richard
and Earlene (Biddison) Fidler have always been the best parents anyone could ask for. They
have always been supportive. They've always believed in me and defended me and everything
I've ever stood for. I'm sure at times in my adolescence I may have written a couple of
unkind things here and there about them, but the truth is I was spoiled and they did their
best now and then to remind me that the world did not actually revolve around me. Mom
passed away Nov. 23, 2003. She is sorely missed. |
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"Mike" is
the youngest of my two brothers. Michael Richard Fidler was born Jan. 23, 1959. The top
picture shows him as a senior, class of 1977, at Illinois Valley Central High School, in
Chillicothe, Ill. The bottom picture shows him now. Mike still loves cars and is working
at a hardware store in Chillicothe, Ill. |
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"Bob" is the oldest of my two brothers. Robert Dale Fidler was born July 30,
1955. The top picture shows him as a senior, class of 1973, at Illinois Valley Central
High School in Chillicothe, Ill. The bottom picture shows him in the home of his oldest of
three children, Chad, in Chillicothe in the late '90s. Bob is still an excellent drummer.
He married Sharolyn Kennington, his high school sweetheart, Nov. 16, 1974, and they had
three children, Chad, Miranda ("Mandy,") and Samantha. The couple and Samantha
live in Mackinaw, Ill. He is an electrician at the Mitsubishi plant. |
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"Aunt Dorothy" Dorothy
Mae Biddison Herron Graf was the greatest aunt a gal could have. She was my mother's older
sister and was just the coolest chick I knew. Mom, and Aunt Dorothy and I would often play
hooky to hit the stores. Before their mother, my Grandma Biddison's death, the three of us
were some serious garage sale hunters. She is pictured above in the early 1970s with her
second husband, Art Graf. The bottom picture is her in the late '80s. We lost Aunt Dorothy
in July 1997. She is dearly missed. |
Go
GREY GHOSTS! Click on the ghost at the left to go to my high school
alumni site. Those of you who also attended Illinois Valley
Central High School will find your classmates here, including Josh Taylor, who plays Roman
Brady on NBC's Days of Our Lives! Those of you who didn't go to
our high school will probably find some fun stuff to reminisce about anyways!
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